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How NOT to Prepare for Closing on a Mexican Home (But It Worked Out Anyway)
I swear the wait was about a year, but closing was finally within sight. I was a bundle of nerves and excitement. I'd never done anything...
toats99377
3 days ago5 min read
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Closing the Door on My American Dream
After months of charts, spreadsheets, and late-night calls with my mother, I finally decided on the property that would become my new...
toats99377
Mar 43 min read
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No Pasaporte
I do stupid things quite often, but I can usually think or talk my way out of any mess. Or at least get a good laugh out of it. This...
toats99377
Jan 285 min read
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Door #1 or Door #2
My decision-making process is just that--a process. Part of it is instinct and vibe, and part of it is old-fashioned pragmatism. Oh, and...
toats99377
Jan 122 min read
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House Hunting Internationally
My mother likes to say when I get a bee in my bonnet, I’m going to win at whatever it is. I hate to admit there’s more than a grain of...
toats99377
Dec 6, 20246 min read
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A Dose of Reality
Like most people, I love being right. I don’t gloat, but I get a self-satisfied grin on my face or try to further explain why I’m right....
toats99377
Sep 29, 20242 min read
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I Been Thinking...
I’m a pretty cautious person, dipping my toe in the water, testing, swirling it around a bit to make sure nothing is going to bite me...
toats99377
Jul 27, 20243 min read
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House Hunters International
Confession: I used to love HGTV. I could sit for hours with the television tuned to my second favorite station. Myles of Style was my...
toats99377
May 22, 20243 min read
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Cancun...
I am not a beach person (too many people). I am not a water person (can’t swim). I am, however, a person who loves sunshine and warm...
toats99377
Mar 28, 20244 min read
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It's a Smaller World After All
Purchasing a house is a big decision. Moving to a different city or state is a heavy lift. Building a life in a different country? That’s...
toats99377
Feb 18, 20243 min read
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The Decision
A friend once asked, “Girl, do you even have a pulse?” I wear my calm stillness as a badge of honor, chest poked out and everything, but...
toats99377
Jan 10, 20243 min read
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